I Know What I Don’t Want!

Sometimes when a relationship, situationship, friendship etc. doesn’t work out, we only recall the bad that came from that experience. But that perspective not only limits your scope, it also causes you to miss a rather large point. People can enter your life to show you what you don’t want. We expect people to show us what we desire but trust me, knowing what you … Continue reading I Know What I Don’t Want!

Posting on Social Media is Not a Marketing Plan.

I have an e-commerce store, Kulturally Appropriate, and I’ve had it for a few years now. I started this business with $50.00, some creativity, a dream and no business plan – that’s the truth. Furthermore, not only did I lack a business plan, I had yet to create a marketing strategy as well. My only true plan was to start the business and getting started … Continue reading Posting on Social Media is Not a Marketing Plan.

What’s My Superpower: Tenacity

That’s my superpower, I never give up! In my youth, I was forced to grow up because real life events occurred that shattered the fantasy land that youth requires. Now, I knew that criminals, jail, pain, divorce and anxiety are all real. They aren’t reserved for motion pictures and hood classics. That’s my story and although I wish things panned out differently, they didn’t. Whatever … Continue reading What’s My Superpower: Tenacity

Custom Orders Take Longer

Are you a patient person? Yes or no? I’ve learned to be.  Patience is necessary because custom orders take longer. You desire a bold, exciting and unapologetic life, right? You want to travel, procreate, party, love, succeed? A basic life doesn’t require patience just complacency. That said, when you desire a personalized experience in this life, not one copy and pasted from societal norms and … Continue reading Custom Orders Take Longer

10 Things I Wish I Knew About Happiness When I Was Miserable!

To be happy, what a chore it once was. I thought happiness was linked to a healthy family, money, vacations, a good job, kids, the perfect house, a nice car etc. but it’s not. Materialisms gift moments of happiness but not true internal joy. Being happy is merely a decision. Each day you can choose to be miserable or to be happy – simple, but … Continue reading 10 Things I Wish I Knew About Happiness When I Was Miserable!

Hello November: Try These 7 Steps to Prepare for an Epic 2023

Wow! There are only two months left in 2022. This year certainly flew by but what a time it is to be alive. I hope you’re cherishing your time here and smiling more than you frown but anywho, let’s make the best out of the rest of this year. Do these 7 things during this month and the next to prepare for an epic 2023! … Continue reading Hello November: Try These 7 Steps to Prepare for an Epic 2023

Let Me Remove Myself

If your absence doesn’t matter, neither does your presence. One more time for those in the back. If your absence doesn’t matter, neither does your presence. If someone doesn’t feel your absence, don’t gift them your presence. Everyone wants to be cared about but sometimes you’re seeking care and affection from someone that could go with or without you. You think that you’re reprimanding them … Continue reading Let Me Remove Myself

Stop “double-backing” out of comfort.

We tend to lean towards what’s familiar. We like familiar smells, familiar tasks, familiar jobs and yes, we also like familiar people. Sometimes out of a fear of starting over, we will double-back to people we left alone for a reason, a damn good one – typically. Why? Because familiar is easier, less unknowns, less start-up time but it may end in the same way … Continue reading Stop “double-backing” out of comfort.

The Power of Disappearance

Every other day I see a thread on Twitter about disappearing for three or six months to watch how your life changes. I thought it was mostly bullshit but au contraire. I wonder if you are supposed to announce your disappearance or discuss it in anyway. Does that go against the rules? Does that defeat the purpose? In my opinion, it doesn’t. You can document … Continue reading The Power of Disappearance