Your Thoughts, Your Words & Your Actions are All Married!

What you think, what you say and what you do are all in one big committed relationship. You can’t think negatively and achieve positivity. You can’t voice pessimistic thoughts and live happily ever after. You can be a victim of your thoughts, words and actions or the warrior of them. 


What are your thoughts like? What do you think about? Are these happy thoughts? Are they doomsday thoughts? Are you miserable in your thoughts? Do you feel trapped by your thoughts? Think about it. 

If you are not willing to shift your thinking from negative to positive and hopeful, you’ll never achieve the life or results or income etc. that you desire. Why are your thoughts so important? Because if you don’t think you can do it, nine times out of 10 – you won’t. If I didn’t think I could start a blog and start my own e-commerce store, I wouldn’t have. Why? Because I didn’t believe I could. However, not only did I believe that I could, I knew that I could. It’s my internal confidence clock that got me here, that got you here, reading my words and what not.

I have an internally robust belief in who I am and what I can achieve, therefore my thoughts reflect just that and that’s how I am able to make the strides I have. What do you think of you? Take a second and really think about it. If a negative thought about you comes to your mind first, push it to the side and replace it with, “I am capable. I am intelligent. I am successful. I am hungry. I am determined and I won’t ever let up, not never!” Keep saying it until you believe it. Shift your thinking and how you talk to yourself and eventually you will shift your outcome.


Are you nice to yourself? Do you compliment yourself? Do you encourage yourself? Are you your biggest fan or your worst enemy?

I’m nice to me because this is the only person I get to be in this life, therefore I am sure to treat me with the utmost respect and nothing less. However, I wasn’t always nice to me. Years ago I didn’t believe in Jia, let alone Miss Ikonic. I was lost, confused, alone and damaged but I eventually pulled myself out of the gutter because I didn’t like the smell down there. I replaced, “I can’t do that,” with “I will do that.” I turned in, “I’m just meant to struggle,” for “I’m destined for greatness.” I traded tears for action.

One more time for those in the back.

I traded tears for action.


If your thoughts are negative and your words are demeaning, don’t expect your actions to be fruitful. Your thoughts, your words and your actions share a codependency – you!

Their all married and committed to you. Be careful with them. Be patient with them. Be diligent with them. Leave room for error but learn from those errors, don’t wallow in them. Everything you want to achieve starts with thinking you can do it, then saying it and then putting action behind it. You won’t act on what you never thought about and you won’t achieve things that you’re not intentional about. Put in the work to be the best version of you and trust me, optimal results will follow. 

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