Does your life lack purpose? Are you bored, dissatisfied, disinterested, unmotivated? Are you doing what you “have” to do because you have bills that must be paid? Are you merely existing without truly living? If you answered “Yes,” to any of the above questions, keep reading.

Let’s discover your “why,” why are you allowing yourself to be unfulfilled in the only life we allegedly get? If your job doesn’t interest you, do you at least have side hustles that do? If your family stresses you out to no end, do you make them aware it or do you just take it? If you don’t like your body, are you working out and changing your diet or complaining through bites of pizza? Let’s just be real with one another, where ever you are at in life, in this current moment is a choice.

What are your choices like? Do you make beneficial choices? Are you in debt up to your ears but can’t stay off Amazon? Are you allowing people that don’t benefit you to control your decisions? Do you have even one independent thought or are your choices, interests, fashion styles etc. based off others? 

Who are you? Me, I’m a writer, an entrepreneur, a proud sister, an awesome friend, a creator, a child of God etc. I am content with who I am, what I bring to the table, where I’m at in life currently and where I’m headed. Can you say the same? More importantly, how did I get here? After years of self loathing and pessimistic mindsets, I finally said enough is enough – I want to be happy. I want to smile for no reason and date without regurgitating my past. I want to love without fear and live abundantly.

Here are the three reasons why you are unfulfilled in life:

Reason #1: You’re lazy. 

Your mouth says you want better but your actions tell a different story. Your mindset is in poverty while you’re having seven figure dreams. Take action. Eliminate excuses. 

Reason #2: You don’t want it bad enough. 

If you want something bad enough, you’ll put the work in – no excuses. 

Reason #3: You’re still discovering who you are?

You don’t know what makes you happy because you’re still discovering who you are, your interests, your dislikes, you’re strengths, your weaknesses etc. Don’t spend a lifetime with you and then end up ironically labeling yourself a stranger by the time it’s all said and done. Who are you? Who do you want to be? Start figuring that out. Look for the constants in your life. Read more. Meditate. Make new friends. Travel. Get to know yourself inside and out.

You got this!

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