I’m going to dive right in, giving you no time to jump to whatever conclusions you were ready to leap towards.
Men are like makeup, in other words, they are meant to enhance, not to alter or transform you into someone unrecognizable. Are you tracking my simile?
That said, I will be referring to men in this article. It doesn’t mean that I don’t believe that women are meant to enhance as well – I do – but, right now, I’m focusing on my guys so feel free to exit stage left if you feel indifferent.
Moving on, some of you are entertaining men that don’t enhance you. They don’t uplift you or add to you, so why are you giving yourself to them? I hope it’s not due to their ”potential.” If you’re the type of woman, who loves ”potential” in a man, it’s time for you to grow up and address the mental and emotional addiction you have to feeling needed. A man that needs you, isn’t necessarily the man that needs to keep you.
One more time for those in the back.
A man that needs you, isn’t necessarily the man that needs to keep you.
Let’s elaborate, shall we? You want a man that needs you to an extent, but not a man that needs you financially, or a man that needs to borrow your car but won’t maintenance your car or a man that needs you to keep him emotionally uplifted while he leaves you emotionally drained – he’s messing up your makeup honey. The glow a good man can give you is a cosmetic flex in itself, an idiosyncratic radiance that no one else can duplicate. Inversely, the wrong man, can obliterate that exterior glimmer leaving you dull and diminished.
You deserve reciprocated energy so it’s imperative that you date, engage and marry in your bracket, your emotional, spiritual, mental, physical and financial (optional) bracket.
Ladies, I believe that dating in your financial bracket is optional, when he makes more than you not when he makes considerably less. However, that is just my opinion, hence why it’s a optional choice.
Moving on, essentially, a good man will keep you looking slayed to the God’s, shining in all the right places, blushing incessantly, highlighting your inner being and if you choose wisely, he’ll last a lifetime and not just one night.
You got this!
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THE IKON. 