Would it be shallow of me to create a blog article that is solely about my happiness? Maybe, but I’m going to do it anyway. I’m in a relationship! Can you believe that? A full-fledged, healthy, beautiful and loving relationship. I know, it’s hard to believe but I’m blessed and with this relationship I have been gifted an additional layer of happiness. See, I was … Continue reading Happiness Looks Good on You Jia!
Are you attentive? Do you truly pay attention to people, their actions, their words, their intentions, their mannerisms, or lack here of? I believe that if you pay close enough attention to a person, during the dating phase, you only need one week to determine if this person would be a good fit for you. Yes, seven days. I know what you’re thinking, “How can … Continue reading Give Them One Week!
One of my superpowers is my fearless ability to change my interests amid simultaneously giving zero f***’s about who likes it and who doesn’t. To my knowledge, we only live once, so if one year I’m interested in real estate and the next year I’m interested in fitness – that’s my business. Some of you are stuck in dead-end jobs and lackluster side-hustles because you’re … Continue reading Don’t Be Afraid to Shift Your Interests!
Wow! It’s 2023! It’s our Jordan year! What are your plans? How do you feel? Overwhelmed? Inspired? Motivated? Blessed? All of the above? I am proud of myself, and I am excited for this new year, and what it may bring. I’m also a little overwhelmed by the amount of goals I have set for myself, but I will achieve them. However, I never want … Continue reading Happy New Year, You Filthy Animals!
We all want to profit from doing the things we love but how? It’s not as simple as some people make it seem, so I’m here to debunk the myth of ease and overnight success that some fast-talking-public-speaking-entrepreneurs perpetrate. If it was easy, everyone would be doing it and I know that it like everyone is doing it. Social media flashes entrepreneurial achievement, financial flexing … Continue reading How to Turn Your Passion into Profit
You are going to make mistakes. You are sometimes going to do the very thing you said you wouldn’t. You are going to stumble and fall. You are going to be rude to yourself and ask yourself, “Why did I just do that, don’t I know better?” You do know better but, humanity in itself represents the inevitable presence of error. You will make mistakes … Continue reading Forgive Yourself.
You need to set some boundaries. A life without boundaries = open season on your a**! When you avoid setting boundaries, you are only encouraging disrespect and a lot of stress. Stress is the number one killer and in most cases, its avoidable. Letting people use you as a doormat to a home you’re not even welcome in is pure blasphemy. One more time for … Continue reading A Life Without Boundaries
It ain’t trickin` if you got it! I will always trick on me because I earned it, because I’m worth it and because I deserve the best of everything and I will always gift that to myself. Never stop dating yourself, rather you are in a relationship or if you’re single. Treat yourself to vacations, gifts, a new home, a trip to the hair salon, … Continue reading 5 Reasons Why You Should Date Yourself
Typically, people apply for jobs that they’re qualified for. You wouldn’t apply for a CEO position straight out of college. You wouldn’t apply to a Senior Technology Specialist position when you just got out of law school, right? Right. That said, it would behoove you to date like an employer. In other words, think of dates as interviews and don’t go on one until they’ve … Continue reading Date Like an Employer!
Sometimes when a relationship, situationship, friendship etc. doesn’t work out, we only recall the bad that came from that experience. But that perspective not only limits your scope, it also causes you to miss a rather large point. People can enter your life to show you what you don’t want. We expect people to show us what we desire but trust me, knowing what you … Continue reading I Know What I Don’t Want!