Stop Dating People That Only Like the “Idea” of You

One more time for those in the back. Stop dating people that only like the idea of you. You’re attractive, stunning in the light, hardworking, intelligent, relentlessly passionate, funny and formidable. You possess the ideal character and physical traits of the highly sought after but most people only like the idea of you and resent the actual work, patience and effort it would take to … Continue reading Stop Dating People That Only Like the “Idea” of You

Trust Your Vision Podcast: Miss Ikonic

Today Brian Hampton, author and journalist, released his podcast interview with yours truly. The Trust Your Vision Podcast is an extension of his best selling novel Trust Your Vision: Your Greatness Is Within. In this podcast, we discuss the keys to success, hip-hop, my writing and entrepreneurial journey and more. Ambition is a way of life that requires sacrifice, moments of impulsiveness, consistency and a … Continue reading Trust Your Vision Podcast: Miss Ikonic

I Moved Back to Atlanta!

Guess what? I moved back to Atlanta this past Saturday and what a feeling! I feel blessed, excited, nervous, anxious, successful and motivated. I lived in Atlanta before from 2015 to 2019. Those were tumultuous, eventful and struggle-filled times but they helped shape who I am today – now I’m back and better than ever. It’s been three years and I spent that time, while … Continue reading I Moved Back to Atlanta!

You Attract What You Are Ready For 

Are you ready for what you are asking and praying for? Do you truly have the space? I’m not asking about your physical space but your emotional, mental and spiritual space. You might have the physical and financial space for a child in your five bedroom home but do you have the emotional, mental and spiritual space? You might desire that higher paying job but if you can’t handle … Continue reading You Attract What You Are Ready For 

The Power of a #JustDoIt Mentality

Fear can be the difference between living and existing. Existing is accepting the monotony of life and striving for nothing greater than simply being, being in your job, in your home, in your family, in your activities etc. Living is a robust feeling, a limitless action, one that involves risks, adventures and, in truth, just whatever makes you truly happy. If you’re happy going to … Continue reading The Power of a #JustDoIt Mentality

Stop Viewing Every Obstacle as a Problem.

Do you have that friend or family member in your life that views everything as a problem? It’s raining outside – problem. My check was shorter than I expected – problem. Every-single-time-I-turn-around-it’s-something, kind of mentality – problem. No matter what happens to them in life they only see the obstacle and not the opportunity. That’s a terrible and miserable way to exist. The problem with … Continue reading Stop Viewing Every Obstacle as a Problem.

Stop accepting more when you come with less.

One more time for those in the back. Stop accepting more when you come with less. It’s imperative to date within your balance. You have a job, they have a job or business etc. You have a car, they have a car. You workout, they workout. You don’t have kids, they don’t have kids (optional). You have your own place, they have their own place. … Continue reading Stop accepting more when you come with less.