It’s better to be alone than in bad company.

We live in a generation where we are literally referred to as followers and the more you have, the more desirable you appear yet all the more elusive in the same. Some gorgeous nobody from the middle of nowhere garners millions of followers and all of a sudden the faceless neophyte becomes a six-figure-earner and party flyer cover star. We love the idea of being … Continue reading It’s better to be alone than in bad company.

How Many Red Flags Do You Need Before You Abort-Mission?

One more time for those in the back. How many red flags do you need before you abort-mission? Think of a number based on your previous relationships, datingships and situationships. If it’s a number between one and one, you’re golden and you can stop reading here. Thanks for stopping by though. However, if you thought of a number greater than one – keep reading. Let’s … Continue reading How Many Red Flags Do You Need Before You Abort-Mission?

The Breakfast Club: Judge Faith Jenkins Interview Takeaways

Judge Faith Jenkins truly speaks to my soul and I’m extremely excited to read her new book Sis Don’t Settle. (I’ll be picking up a copy tomorrow). During her Breakfast Club interview she touched on various relevant points regarding relationships but those that stood out to me the most were the following: 1. Stop making rejection so personal. Don’t always internalize rejection. It’s not always … Continue reading The Breakfast Club: Judge Faith Jenkins Interview Takeaways

Don’t let your loyalty become slavery.  

I’m a Taurus and we are known to be unapologetically loyal. It’s one of the most unfortunate side effects of this zodiac sign, if you ask me, because sometimes we allow our loyalty to become slavery. Yes, I know, it’s not only Taurus’ that suffer from this anchored devotion but, I’m speaking from my own perspective. True unfiltered allegiance is an attractive character trait but … Continue reading Don’t let your loyalty become slavery.  

Don’t let someone save you for later. 

One more time for those in the back! Don’t let someone save you for later. There’s a huge difference between patience and ignorance. Being patient with a person, means that you accept that they’re a work in progress and you’re willing to give them some time to evolve, transform and grow. The key word is some time, not all the time in the world. Ignorance is knowing that a person … Continue reading Don’t let someone save you for later. 

Cherae Leri & IAMFLUX Deliver an XXXMas Medley Special  + Official Visual

The most wonderful time of the year is approaching, but this year Cherae Leri and IAMFLUX are spicing up this holiday season for the grown and sexy folk with an x-rated medley of some of your favorite Christmas hits and timeless RnB tracks. From holiday classics like “All I Want for Christmas” to RnB anthems like “Freak Me,” this FLUX and Drumz & Roses produced … Continue reading Cherae Leri & IAMFLUX Deliver an XXXMas Medley Special  + Official Visual

Stop Letting People Treat You like a 7-Eleven!

A wise man once said: “Fool me one time shame on youFool me twice, can’t put the blame on youFool me three times, fuck the peace signsLoad the chopper, let it rain on you…” “No Role Modelz”J. Cole Why are you always open and available for people that don’t reciprocate that same level of selflessness in regards to you? It’s wisely advised to have your … Continue reading Stop Letting People Treat You like a 7-Eleven!

I’m Tired of Starting Over! 

Can I get an, “Amen,” from the congregation? Hallelujah and all that but, let’s talk about it. How many of you are tired of starting over, in your relationships, in your career, in your faith, in your habits etc.? It can be a bit exhausting, especially with that mentality. You are not starting over from scratch, you are starting over from experience. One more time … Continue reading I’m Tired of Starting Over!