Judge Faith Jenkins truly speaks to my soul and I’m extremely excited to read her new book Sis Don’t Settle. (I’ll be picking up a copy tomorrow). During her Breakfast Club interview she touched on various relevant points regarding relationships but those that stood out to me the most were the following: 1. Stop making rejection so personal. Don’t always internalize rejection. It’s not always … Continue reading The Breakfast Club: Judge Faith Jenkins Interview Takeaways
I’m a Taurus and we are known to be unapologetically loyal. It’s one of the most unfortunate side effects of this zodiac sign, if you ask me, because sometimes we allow our loyalty to become slavery. Yes, I know, it’s not only Taurus’ that suffer from this anchored devotion but, I’m speaking from my own perspective. True unfiltered allegiance is an attractive character trait but … Continue reading Don’t let your loyalty become slavery.
One more time for those in the back! Don’t let someone save you for later. There’s a huge difference between patience and ignorance. Being patient with a person, means that you accept that they’re a work in progress and you’re willing to give them some time to evolve, transform and grow. The key word is some time, not all the time in the world. Ignorance is knowing that a person … Continue reading Don’t let someone save you for later.
The most wonderful time of the year is approaching, but this year Cherae Leri and IAMFLUX are spicing up this holiday season for the grown and sexy folk with an x-rated medley of some of your favorite Christmas hits and timeless RnB tracks. From holiday classics like “All I Want for Christmas” to RnB anthems like “Freak Me,” this FLUX and Drumz & Roses produced … Continue reading Cherae Leri & IAMFLUX Deliver an XXXMas Medley Special + Official Visual
A wise man once said: “Fool me one time shame on youFool me twice, can’t put the blame on youFool me three times, fuck the peace signsLoad the chopper, let it rain on you…” “No Role Modelz”J. Cole Why are you always open and available for people that don’t reciprocate that same level of selflessness in regards to you? It’s wisely advised to have your … Continue reading Stop Letting People Treat You like a 7-Eleven!
Can I get an, “Amen,” from the congregation? Hallelujah and all that but, let’s talk about it. How many of you are tired of starting over, in your relationships, in your career, in your faith, in your habits etc.? It can be a bit exhausting, especially with that mentality. You are not starting over from scratch, you are starting over from experience. One more time … Continue reading I’m Tired of Starting Over!
If your energy is not reciprocated, congratulations, you played yourself! Continue reading Don’t Overplay Your Role
You must set boundaries, without boundaries people will walk all over you, disrespect you, try you constantly and keep pushing and pushing until you finally fall overboard – a victim of your own inability to fight for self. Why would you tolerate disrespect? How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel worthy? Do you feel less than ? Do you feel attractive ? Do … Continue reading “A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.” – Ritu Ghatourey
In my opinion, disappointment feels worse than anger or sadness. Disappointment stems from expectation, from expecting better from a person or a situation and in the end getting the complete opposite of what you desired. Coping with disappointment can take days, weeks, months and even years, if you allow it. Daily affirmations are a consistent way to speak positively and optimistically into the universe. What … Continue reading 4 Daily Affirmations to Help Cope with Disappointment!
It’s expensive to access me right now and I’m not speaking in financial terms. I can only be accessed by those that are wealthy in spirit, in mind, in body, in their choices, in their vibe. Stop putting yourself on the clearance rack. One more time for those in the back. Stop putting yourself on the clearance rack! Stop allowing people to access you for … Continue reading My soul is on a budget.