“A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.” – Ritu Ghatourey

You must set boundaries, without boundaries people will walk all over you, disrespect you, try you constantly and keep pushing and pushing until you finally fall overboard – a victim of your own inability to fight for self. Why would you tolerate disrespect? How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel worthy? Do you feel less than ? Do you feel attractive ? Do … Continue reading “A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.” – Ritu Ghatourey

4 Daily Affirmations to Help Cope with Disappointment!

In my opinion, disappointment feels worse than anger or sadness. Disappointment stems from expectation, from expecting better from a person or a situation and in the end getting the complete opposite of what you desired. Coping with disappointment can take days, weeks, months and even years, if you allow it. Daily affirmations are a consistent way to speak positively and optimistically into the universe. What … Continue reading 4 Daily Affirmations to Help Cope with Disappointment!

My soul is on a budget.

It’s expensive to access me right now and I’m not speaking in financial terms. I can only be accessed by those that are wealthy in spirit, in mind, in body, in their choices, in their vibe. Stop putting yourself on the clearance rack. One more time for those in the back.  Stop putting yourself on the clearance rack! Stop allowing people to access you for … Continue reading My soul is on a budget.

Don’t use being “busy” as a crutch for your clear disinterest.

“I’m busy.” “Okay, and so am I.” You shouldn’t have to fight for communication from a person who allegedly “likes” you.  One more time for those in the back. You shouldn’t have to fight for communication from a person who allegedly “likes” you.  Let’s take it back in to time. Do you remember the era before cell phones, when a boy or girl would have … Continue reading Don’t use being “busy” as a crutch for your clear disinterest.

Never put the key to your happiness in somebody else’s pocket.

Are you happy for you or someone else? Are you happy alone? Do you need other people to make you feel happy? Are you fulfilled, in life, in your career, in your relationships, in your investments? Are you aware of what happiness looks like for you? What is your happiest moment and does it involve other people, the birth of a child, a new pay increase, … Continue reading Never put the key to your happiness in somebody else’s pocket.